Hello, It has taken me a few years to finally decide what I wanted to use to express my love for my family. The top names are my daughter and son and the Lilly represents me. I also have 2 stepsons that I have helped to raise for 10 years now and while I didn't feel like I could add their names because I technically didn't give birth to them I used the leaves on the flower to represent each of them because they are such an important part of the flower. The Wedding rings and marriage date and the bottom names are explanatory. My husband is the love of my life and even though I swore I would NEVER put a man's name on me I think that after 10 years he's a pretty good bet. Now I am looking into one more for my left calf. I have a heart with the sun & Moon on my right calf. It has to be extremely meaningful to me so we'll see what it turns out to be. I'll keep you posted. Please contact me and we'll talk. I work at home and get very bored sometimes.